Where Jared’s Going

Last week we had a meet­ing at Jared’s school to go over his IEP (Indi­vid­ual Edu­ca­tion Plan). The teach­ers made some changes to his goals and PLOPs (Present Levels of Per­for­mance), but the real dis­cus­sion was about two other topics: eval­u­a­tion and transition.

The school con­ducted a series of eval­u­a­tions of Jared’s skills in Feb­ru­ary, and they pre­sented the results to us at the meet­ing. Jared is doing well – they find that he’s capa­ble of doing age-​appropriate work (first grade, since he’s six) and is per­form­ing in the aver­age range. We were pretty impressed.

For Jared to score in the aver­age range, that means that he had to per­form exceed­ingly well given that he has the added dis­trac­tions and prob­lems that are a result of his autism. He missed a bunch of ques­tions because he lost focus, and wouldn’t com­plete a test that involved writ­ing with a pencil (he can’t bear the way it feels). And when you factor in that he started with a lan­guage delay, it’s clear that he did magnificently.

To make an anal­ogy: It’s like if Jared fin­ished in the middle of the pack in a marathon. A marathon that he gave every­one else a head-​start on, and then car­ried 30 pounds of weight on his back and had to take a break every 5 min­utes. Maybe he didn’t finish at the same time as a world-​class runner, but he ran a much more dif­fi­cult race. I’d like to see even a world-​class runner do that.

So I’m impressed. While he strug­gled on the writ­ing, he was above aver­age in read­ing skills and matrix rea­son­ing (typ­i­cally a strong suit for autis­tics). And he also got marked down for not answer­ing ques­tions the way that the test requires them: for instance, one of the tests requires kids to iden­tify pic­tures. Jared labeled one a “sculpture” but didn’t get credit because they were look­ing for “statue.” He also said “shape” when they wanted “rectangle,” but we’re talk­ing about a kid who knows hep­tagons and par­al­lel­o­grams. I think he knows rectangles.

His dis­tractabil­ity came into play in other ways as well: when asked “who brings letters?” he said “a fire­man brings ladders.” After strug­gling to con­vince Jared that they were talk­ing about mail, Jared said, “Daddy brings in the mail.” Absolutely true, but not what they were look­ing for. And I’m happy with the result because funny is always better than accu­rate at our house.

Another factor may have been that Jared is far-​sighted, and didn’t get glasses until after the IEP meet­ing. He cer­tainly looks cute in them, but I wonder how much better he would have scored if he could have seen the the test better.

But the end result of the meet­ing was the most grat­i­fy­ing: they’re kick­ing Jared out of his school. Next fall, Jared leaves the calm con­fines of Ruth Eason and heads off to Kinder­garten at the same school Sierra attended. He’ll be going all day to a class of NT (Neuro-​Typical) stu­dents with some addi­tional sup­port. His cur­rent school is rec­om­mend­ing an assis­tant for the first quar­ter, but he may or may not get that.

We were wor­ried at first about “mainstreaming” Jared beceause Kellie and I both know how cruel kids can be. I spent just about all 13 years of com­pul­sory edu­ca­tion being picked on at best, and beaten up at worst. But at 48” and 66lbs, Jared is above the 95th per­centile on the growth charts (PDF) for both height and weight. And keep in mind that he’ll be 6 and a half when he gets to kinder­garten and the other kids will be 5 and a half a the oldest. Any­body that messes with him in school has a death wish. And don’t get me started on how strong he is.

So things are look­ing good for Jared. For the other kids in his class? We’ll see.

Coming up: Sierra is enter­ing middle school in the fall – will any of us sur­vive the ordeal?

April 15th, 2006 · Category: Family · Tags: , , , , , , , , , , · Comments Off